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Showing posts with label Life and Love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Life and Love. Show all posts

Thursday, May 10, 2012

Musings on "Love Rain" (Part 2)


Let me start where I left off in my previous post, Musings on "Love Rain".  When I said that Life presents a lot of second chances, and once you get your chance, seize it, hold on to it, and fight for it... well, what In Ha did to get Yoon Hee back is a perfect example.


Do not let things of the past hinder you from pursuing what you've always wanted - tangible or not - most especially when it's surely worth fighting for.  I think everyone deserves a second chance at anything, more so in matters of the heart.

I never imagined that a drama would make me contemplate on quite a lot of things about life -- a drama is a drama, it is not real.  But as you would have it, "Love Rain" did.  Perhaps because it's a masterpiece with a concept that is within the realms of reality that I can perfectly relate to it.

Saturday, April 21, 2012

Musings on "Love Rain"

Love Rain is a Korean drama that depicts a 1970's pure love and a love from the present day at the same time. It shows how the offsprings of a previous ill-fated couple, who met in the 1970s, managed to meet and fall in love. Seo In Ha and Kim Yoon Hee, an art student and a shy beauty, met and fell in love with each other during college in the 1970s, but unfortunately their love was fated to never be. Now in the present 21st century Korea, Seo In Ha's son, Seo Joon (a liberal photographer) meets and falls in with the daughter of Kim Yoon Hee, Jeong Ha Na, a cheerful and energetic girl who's personality is different from her mother's. Will their love for each other keep them together or will they have to face the same fate as their parents? 




Eight episodes into the drama and it had me pondering on times past and present. I was comparing "eras" and coming to some realizations of sorts, nay, eye openers.  They are not realizations in the strict sense of the word, for these are things that we actually know about but have not really paid attention to or given much thought.  Though the drama dealt mostly on the topic of love and will play around with your emotions, I think it did not fail to strike a familiar chord in everyone.

First off, the laid back life in the 70s era is a stark contrast to the fast paced and so-called digital era of today. I kinda wish I can go back to that time when each and every moment of life seems to be savored, revered and treasured; wherein the sincerity and simplicity of pure love can be seen and experienced.  I am not saying that this is not possible at this day and age.  It's just that it is quite rare and hard to come across with nowadays.  Come to think of it ~ finding that one person, among millions all over the world, who completes you (cliche as it may sound); and regardless of time and space, still makes your heart do flips and somersaults, is something short of a miracle.  Yes, love... and I mean true love, can do that to you.

Love often comes in unexpected ways, places, and circumstances (It did to me!).  You don't have to go looking for it (especially to those who think they are doomed to single-blessedness... but then again, what's wrong with that?!).  Anyway, what I meant to say was, love will come to you.  At times, it is so simple yet abrupt and will stop you dead on your tracks but you know in your heart, without a doubt, that this is it (like in the case of Seo In ha) or unexpected and extraordinary that it's staring you right in the face and you don't even realize it, or choose not to acknowledge it (like what happened to Seo Joon).  But whichever way it is, true love stands the tests of time.

Seeing the difference of how love is in the two eras, it was somewhat an eye opener. In this modern life where it often takes a back seat, the rarity and scarcity of finding love in its purest sense is quite glaring. And those who did, but have been so caught up in the complexities of the times, often take for granted that which has brought them together in the first place, and the reason why they stayed together through the years. Cheesy, I know!  But I guess LR has that effect on me.  I am a hopeless romantic (or so I think I am) and it breaks my heart that it seems selfless and unconditional love has become the exception rather than the norm, or it could just be me.

Another thing I've come to realize, and this is something that is often overlooked, is that life, no matter how unfair it may seem, presents a lot of second chances. So when you get your second chance, seize it, hold on to it, and fight for it!  Chances are, if you did not win the first time, you will this time around.  And if you still don't, it is not meant to be (or I'd like to believe that greater things are bound to happen).  The point is, at least you tried your damnedest best and hardest and learnt the lessons along the way.  After all, that is what matters the most.

Well, I guess this is just the start of more realizations-of-sorts for me 'coz the drama presents a lot of ideologies, perceptions, and realities of Life and Love, which is why I am hooked on it; and not to mention the fact that it's top-billed by the one Hallyu star who is, and forever will be, first in my heart.  As the drama progresses, I will share more of them here.


Friday, September 9, 2011

Just BE...



Be a lot of things but always be yourself...


      Be BOLD                       Be THANKFUL                    Be QUIET        


                   Be ORIGINAL                    Be SPONTANEOUS             


        Be PUNCTUAL                      Be A STAR                             Be YOUNG          


             Be LOVING                 Be CRAZY                    Be LOUD



  Be RANDOM                      Be ADORABLE                   Be UNIQUE
                           

                           Be DARING                            Be OBNOXIOUS


                                                        Be YOURSELF!


Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Love is...




It’s but human instinct to protect and deeply care for the people most important in our lives.  We would rather be hurt than see them in pain.  I know hurt and pain are so much a part of life, but to see those whom we greatly treasure and care for struggle with it, is something we can never endure.  I guess, people who love will always be like this.  It doesn't matter if the one we love is the worst person on earth, in our eyes and hearts, he or she will always be "perfect"…  and would always complete us, don’t you think?


Wednesday, August 17, 2011

What Love Means to 4 to 8 Year-Olds...


I just got this in my e-mail (like, 5 minutes ago).  It's actually a chain letter but this is one of the many chain letters I've received in the mail that is essentially worth reading so I decided to post it.


What Love means to a 4-8 year-old...



A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, 

'What does love mean?'

The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined.  See what you think:




'When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore.  So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love.'

Rebecca- age 8


'When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.
You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.'

Billy - age 4


'Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.'

Karl - age 5


'Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.'

Chrissy - age 6


'Love is what makes you smile when you're tired.'

Terri - age 4


'Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.'

Danny - age 7


'Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more.  My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss'

Emily - age 8


'Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.'

Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)


'If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,'

Nikka - age 6
(we need a few million more Nikkas on this planet)


'Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.'

Noelle - age 7


'Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.'

Tommy - age 6


'During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling.  He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore.'

Cindy - age 8


'My mommy loves me more than anybody.
You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.'

Clare - age 6


'Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.'

Elaine-age 5


'Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.'

Chris - age 7


'Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.'

Mary Ann - age 4


'I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.'

Lauren - age 4


'When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.' (what an image)

Karen - age 7


'Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn't think it's gross.'

Mark - age 6


'You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.'
 
Jessica - age 8


And the final one...

The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.

Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.

When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said,

'Nothing, I just helped him cry'


Tuesday, August 16, 2011

My TOP 10 SONGS of All-Time


Truth is, I am an old soul...

And these are the songs of my life, my heart, and soul.

Old as some may be, but these are songs that mean the most to me.


Ngayon by Basil Valdez (an Original Pilipino Music - OPM), 1981



"Make each moment of your life worthwhile... Live life with no regrets."


Beauty and Madness by Fra Lippo Lippi, 1988



"The beauty of life lies not in what you have but who you're with to see it through."


Say that You Love Me by Martin Nievera (Original Pilipino Music), 1989



"Loving someone so much so that it hurts..."


Go the Distance by Michael Bolton (theme from the movie Hercules), 1997



"YOU are destined for GREATNESS..."


Amazed by Lonestar, 1999



"I love you... and that is what matters the most."


Flying Without Wings by Westlife, 1999



"Having the person you love beside you makes each day worth waking up to."


Today My Life Begins by Bruno Mars, 2010



"The failures of the past are over and done with... time to start anew."


God Gave Me You by Bryan White, 1999



"I thank God for the gift of YOU."


I'm Yours by The Script, 2008



"Yes, love can be so unconditional."


Keep Your Head Up by Andy Grammer, 2011



"Life's challenges & failures are there to help you learn so you can stand back up."


Wednesday, July 13, 2011

God Gave Me You




For all the times I felt cheated, I complained
You know how I love to complain
For all the wrongs I repeated, though I was to blame
I still cursed that rain
I didn't have a prayer, didn't have a clue
Then out of the blue


God gave me you
To show me what's real
There's more to life than just how I feel
And all that I'm worth is right before my eyes
And all that I live for though I didn't know why
Now I do,
'Cause God gave me you


For all the times I wore my self pity
Like a favorite shirt all wrapped up in that hurt
For every glass I saw, I saw half empty
Now it overflows like a river through my soul
From every doubt I had, I'm finally free
Now I truly believe


God gave me you
To show me what's real
There's more to life than just how I feel
And all that I'm worth is right before my eyes
And all that I live for though I didn't know why
Now I do
'Cause God gave me you


In your arms I'm someone new
With every tender kiss from you
Oh, must confess
I've been blessed


God gave me you
To show me what's real
There's more to life than just how I feel
And all that I'm worth is right before my eyes
And all that I live for though I didn't know why (didn't know why)
Now I do (I finally do),
'Cause God gave me you (God gave me You)


GOD GAVE ME YOU...




A beautiful song indeed!  I think anybody who knows how it is to love, be loved, and get hurt can so much relate to this song.  When you think you are at your lowest point and there's nowhere else to go, God somehow gives you something or someone to hold onto... and hopefully, be there no matter what.  For me, finding that "someone" who would complete your life is like finding the elusive pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.  


Thursday, July 7, 2011

Head in the Clouds




“Clouds come floating into my life, no longer to carry rain or usher storm, but to add color to my sunset sky.”
 
Rabindranath Tagore - Indian Poet, Playwright and Essayist


Saturday, June 25, 2011

God vs. Science: A Good Read


This has been circulated in e-mails and posted in numerous blogs and websites.  It is something to read about and ponder on.  I'm not sure of the story's veracity but it's a very good read nevertheless...


“Let me explain the problem science has with Jesus Christ.” The atheist professor of philosophy pauses before his class and then asks one of his new students to stand.
“You’re a Christian, aren’t you, son?”
“Yes sir,” the student says.
“So you believe in God?”
“Absolutely.”
“Is God good?”
“Sure! God’s good.”
“Is God all-powerful? Can God do anything?”
“Yes.”
“Are you good or evil?”
“The Bible says I’m evil.”
The professor grins knowingly. “Aha! The Bible!” He considers for a moment.
“Here’s one for you. Let’s say there’s a sick person over here and you can cure him. You can do it. Would you help him? Would you try?”
“Yes sir, I would.”
“So you’re good…!”
“I wouldn’t say that.”
“But why not say that? You’d help a sick and maimed person if you could. Most of us would if we could. But God doesn’t.”
The student does not answer, so the professor continues. “He doesn’t, does he? My brother was a Christian who died of cancer, even though he prayed to Jesus to heal him. How is this Jesus good? Hmmm? Can you answer that one?”
The student remains silent.
“No, you can’t, can you?” the professor says. He takes a sip of water from a glass on his desk to give the student time to relax.
“Let’s start again, young fella Is God good?”
“Er…yes,” the student says.
“Is Satan good?”
The student doesn’t hesitate on this one. “No.”
“Then where does Satan come from?”
The student : “From…God…”
“That’s right. God made Satan, didn’t he? Tell me, son. Is there evil in this world?”
“Yes, sir.”
“Evil’s everywhere, isn’t it? And God did make everything, correct?”
“Yes.”
“So who created evil?” The professor continued, “If God created everything, then God created evil, since evil exists, and according to the principle that our works define who we are, then God is evil.”
Without allowing the student to answer, the professor continues: “Is there sickness? Immorality? Hatred? Ugliness? All these terrible things, do they exist in this world?”
The student: “Yes.”
“So who created them?”
The student does not answer again, so the professor repeats his question. “Who created them? There is still no answer. Suddenly the lecturer breaks away to pace in front of the classroom. The class is mesmerized.
“Tell me,” he continues onto another student. “Do you believe in Jesus Christ, son?”
The student’s voice is confident: “Yes, professor, I do.”
The old man stops pacing.. “Science says you have five senses you use to identify and observe the world around you. Have you ever seen Jesus?”
“No sir. I’ve never seen Him”
“Then tell us if you’ve ever heard your Jesus?”
“No, sir, I have not.”
“Have you ever actually felt your Jesus, tasted your Jesus or smelt your Jesus? Have you ever had any sensory perception of Jesus Christ, or God for that matter?”
“No, sir, I’m afraid I haven’t.”
“Yet you still believe in him?”
“Yes.”
“According to the rules of empirical, testable, demonstrable protocol, science says your God doesn’t exist. What do you say to that, son?”
“Nothing,” the student replies. “I only have my faith.”
“Yes, faith,” the professor repeats. “And that is the problem science has with God. There is no evidence, only faith.”
The student stands quietly for a moment, before asking a question of his own. “Professor, is there such thing as heat?”
“Yes,” the professor replies. “There’s heat.”
“And is there such a thing as cold?”
“Yes, son, there’s cold too.”
“No sir, there isn’t.”
The professor turns to face the student, obviously interested. The room suddenly becomes very quiet.. The student begins to explain.
“You can have lots of heat, even more heat, super-heat, mega-heat, unlimited heat, white heat, a little heat or no heat, but we don’t have anything called ‘cold’. We can hit up to 458 degrees below zero, which is no heat, but we can’t go any further after that. There is no such thing as cold; otherwise we would be able to go colder than the lowest -458 degrees. Every body or object is susceptible to study when it has or transmits energy, and heat is what makes a body or matter have or transmit energy. Absolute zero (-458 F) is the total absence of heat. You see, sir, cold is only a word we use to describe the absence of heat. We cannot measure cold. Heat we can measure in thermal units because heat is energy. Cold is not the opposite of heat, sir, just the absence of it.”
Silence across the room. A pen drops somewhere in the classroom, sounding like a hammer.
“What about darkness, professor. Is there such a thing as darkness?”
“Yes,” the professor replies without hesitation. “What is night if it isn’t darkness?”
“You’re wrong again, sir. Darkness is not something; it is the absence of something. You can have low light, normal light, bright light, flashing light, but if you have no light constantly you have nothing and it’s called darkness, isn’t it? That’s the meaning we use to define the word. In reality, darkness isn’t. If it were, you would be able to make darkness darker, wouldn’t you?”
The professor begins to smile at the student in front of him. This will be a good semester. ”So what point are you making, young man?”
“Yes, professor. My point is, your philosophical premise is flawed to start with, and so your conclusion must also be flawed.”
The professor’s face cannot hide his surprise this time. “Flawed? Can you explain how?”
“You are working on the premise of duality,” the student explains. “You argue that there is life and then there’s death; a good God and a bad God. You are viewing the concept of God as something finite, something we can measure. Sir, science can’t even explain a thought. It uses electricity and magnetism, but has never seen, much less fully understood either one. To view death as the opposite of life is to be ignorant of the fact that death cannot exist as a substantive thing. Death is not the opposite of life, just the absence of it.”
“Now tell me, professor. Do you teach your students that they evolved from a monkey?”
“If you are referring to the natural evolutionary process, young man, yes, of course I do”
“Have you ever observed evolution with your own eyes, sir?”
The professor begins to shake his head, still smiling, as he realizes where the argument is going. A very good semester, indeed.
“Since no one has ever observed the process of evolution at work and cannot even prove that this process is an on-going endeavor, are you not teaching your opinion, sir? Are you now not a scientist, but a preacher?”
The class is in uproar. The student remains silent until the commotion has subsided.
“To continue the point you were making earlier to the other student, let me give you an example of what I mean.”
The student looks around the room. “Is there anyone in the class who has ever seen the professor’s brain?” The class breaks out into laughter.
“Is there anyone here who has ever heard the professor’s brain, felt the professor’s brain, touched or smelled the professor’s brain? No one appears to have done so. So, according to the established rules of empirical, stable, demonstrable protocol, science says that you have no brain, with all due respect, sir. So if science says you have no brain, how can we trust your lectures, sir?”
Now the room is silent. The professor just stares at the student, his face unreadable.
Finally, after what seems an eternity, the old man answers. “I guess you’ll have to take them on faith.”
“Now, you accept that there is faith, and, in fact, faith exists with life,” the student continues. “Now, sir, is there such a thing as evil?”
Now uncertain, the professor responds, “Of course, there is. We see it everyday. It is in the daily example of man’s inhumanity to man. It is in the multitude of crime and violence everywhere in the world. These manifestations are nothing else but evil.”
To this the student replied, “Evil does not exist sir, or at least it does not exist unto itself. Evil is simply the absence of God.. It is just like darkness and cold, a word that man has created to describe the absence of God.
God did not create evil. Evil is the result of what happens when man does not have God’s love present in his heart. It’s like the cold that comes when there is no heat or the darkness that comes when there is no light.”



Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Falling in Love...




For me, LOVE, when it happens, comes in two phases - FALLING IN LOVE & BEING IN LOVE.

"Falling" is a perfect word because it's a lot like stumbling (into it).  It comes all of a sudden that you don't even realize it.  You fall into a very deep emotion that, at first, will catch you off guard.  With it comes a feeling of lightheaded-ness and extreme joy and happiness that is so overwhelming & unexplainable.  "Being in love" is when you realize that you are, indeed, in love. You feel a sense of selflessness that you never thought you are capable of, or that you can ever feel so deeply for a person. 

Such was the case when I met my man.  He came oh so suddenly that before I even realized it, I was already deeply in love with him.  He brought out the best in me and made me a better person.  He taught me to look at things differently and changed the way I look at life in general.  He showed me that life is not always as good as it seems nor is it a bed of roses; but that love can be unconditional.  He made me realize my potentials and brought out the strength within me that I never thought I had.  I guess I would never be as strong and determined as I am now if not for him.  Actually, I think I would not be the person I am now had I not met him.  His sincerity, strength, passion and unconditional love has made me yet a much stronger and better person than I was before I met him.  I just hope I did the same to him, too.   

I don't know of the reasons why I fell in love with him... even now.  Well, I don't think I really need any reason for it.  I just know I love him to bits and that is all that matters to me.  Cliche as it may sound, but it is true that when you finally meet the one meant for you, he would really complete you.   Without him, your world will never be the same.

I realized that you may love someone for a thousand & one reasons, or none at all - for words or reasons are not enough to even begin to describe or explain how you feel.  But reason or no reason, I think unconditional and selfless love brings out the best in every person.


Friday, May 27, 2011

The Filipino Spirit... Seriously!


I found this in some Philippine websites and blogs.  Most mention Bill Gates, others Steve Jobs.  I just thought it worth re-blogging...


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Bill Gates organized an enormous session to recruit a new Chairman for Microsoft Europe.

Exactly 5,000 candidates assembled in a large room.

One candidate is MARIO DIMACULANGAN.

Bill Gates: Thank you for coming. Those who do not know JAVA may leave.
2,000 people leave the room.

MARIO says to himself, 'I do not know JAVA but I have nothing to lose if I stay. I’ll give it a try.'

Bill Gates: Candidates who never had experience in managing more than 100 people may leave.
2,000 people leave the room.

Mario says to himself, 'I never managed anybody but myself, but I have nothing to lose if I stay.
What can happen to me?' So, he stays.

Bill Gates: Candidates who do not have MBAs may leave.
500 people leave the room.

Mario says to himself, 'I left high school at 15 but what have I got to lose?'
So, he stays in the room.

Lastly, Bill Gates asked the candidates who do not speak Serbo-Croat to leave.
498 people leave the room.

Mario says to himself, 'I do not speak one word of Serbo-Croat but what do I have to lose?'
So, he stays and finds himself with one other candidate.

Everyone else has gone.

Bill Gates joins them and says, 'Apparently, you are the only two candidates who speak Serbo-Croat, so I’d now like to hear you have a conversation together in that language.'

Calmly, Mario turns to the other candidate and says 'Ano ba yan, dong, tayo na lang ang naiwan dito?'

The other candidate answers, 'Ewan ko ba, pare, bakit nga ba sila nagsilabas?'


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That's the Spirit!  No What If's or What Could Have Been's.




Saturday, May 21, 2011

Love x Hurt





Love 'til it hurts.

And when it hurts,

Love some more.

And when it hurts some more,

Love even more.

And when it hurts even more,

Love 'til it hurts no more.


Saturday, March 26, 2011

Saying "I love you"


While pondering on how life can be gone in an instant, I thought of simple ways to say "I Love You."  You know, ways in which you don't have to spend a fortune to do.  I know there are more but I only listed 10 here...


I believe that the simplest of things can still make people happy.


Thursday, March 24, 2011



I have loved to the point of madness;

that which is madness, 

that which to me,

is the only sensible way to love.


                                              - Francoise Sagan


(photo credit: www.flickr.com/photos/saro_ironi)

Sunday, March 20, 2011

" I "



When I say "I",

I mean a thing absolutely unique,

not be confused with any other.


- Ugo Betti, Italian Playwright





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